My Tribe

If you have been in education long enough, you know that change is inevitable.  In my 18 years as an educator, I have seen the pendulum swing back and forth several times.  It can be overwhelming and confusing at times to know which philosophy to back or which soap box to stand upon.

With that in mind, I can always, always count on my tribe to guide me.  Merriam-Webster defines tribe as “a group of persons having a common character, occupation, or interest.”  Every educator needs a tribe.  This is your core group of people that support, challenge, inspire, and listen to you.  You know, your peeps.

Your tribe can consist of people you see everyday, your work spouse, your students, your gurus, and/or former colleagues.  My tribe is all of the above.

I depend heavily on my “work wife.”  She challenges me to be a better educator.  She is my sounding board when I have an idea and a listening ear when I’m frustrated.  On the days she is not at work, I struggle. I’m lucky in the fact that not only is she an amazing teacher and partner, but she is fun to work with.

I am fortunate to work at a school surrounded by some of the hardest working educators in the world.  The teachers, staff, and administrators I work with have one common goal: what’s best for the kids.  Day in and day out…the students come first.  It is because I work with such phenomenal teachers that I come to work everyday with my A game.  I don’t want to let them down. Even though I am the instructional coach, I learn just as much from them.  My administrators and my mentor support me in every way.  They trust my opinion and respect my experiences.  I could not be innovative or take risks without knowing they’ve got my back. They are part of my tribe.

Even though I don’t see them everyday, or near enough for that matter, my former colleagues are still part of my life.  There are certain teachers who have made huge impressions on me.  They taught me how to truly enjoy teaching.  They taught me to slow down and think things through, to look at the other side of the coin.  My supervising teacher while I did my student teaching taught me to leave my class at the end of the day as if a sub was going to walk in and teach the next day.  In other words, clear your desk of piles, have your plans perfect, and be 100% ready to go!  My two best friends in the world are former colleagues of mine and two of the BEST teachers I have ever seen!  They taught me how to love my students like a mama bear.  These educators have gone on to other schools, positions, or retired, but they made an impact on me.  They are my tribe.

I was once asked in an interview who my educational gurus were.  I faltered.  I had a bookshelf full of professional texts and magazines.  I had a read and researched many educators in grad school.  Why couldn’t I name a few in this interview?  Well, you’d better believe I can name them now! Through every phase of my educational career, I have had a professional hero or mentor.  The day I was hired for my first teaching job, I was handed the book “The First 100 Days of School” by Harry Wong.  I read it cover to cover and it still has a place of honor on my bookshelf.  Dr. Jean Feldman helped me teach kindergarten by teaching me to sing and have fun with my students.  When I became a Literacy Specialist, I studied Fontas and Pinnell and taught many kids how to read.  Just this past week, I met George Couros at a conference.  His book “The Innovator’s Mindset” has transformed my leadership style.  They are part of my tribe (and don’t even know who I am!).

Finally, the most important members of my tribe are my students.  They may change year to year, but they will always be my kids.  I’m an educator.  I’m overworked and underpaid.  But I do it for them.  I believe that I can make a difference and I will not fail them.   I’ve heard people say time and time again that teachers make lasting impressions on students.  I agree.  But what often goes unsaid is that students make lasting impressions on their teachers, too.  They are a BIG part of my tribe.

So why have I spent 30 minutes writing a blog post about My Tribe?  Well, my advice to all educators is find a tribe.  Build your tribe.  Surround yourself with people that inspire you and make you a better person.  Who are the members of your tribe?  Have you ever heard the saying “show me your friends and I’ll show you your future”?  Well, show me your tribe, and I’ll show you what kind of teacher you are.

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30 thoughts on “My Tribe

  1. Lisa-Lou, you are an awesome person, a great educator, and a wonderful writer. I enjoyed reading this and it has motivated me to make sure I acknowledge my tribe.

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  2. Honored to have been mentioned, but I loved how you talked about your students as your “tribe”. It is amazing what we can learn from our students when we are open to doing so! Congrats on jumping into this space 🙂 It gets easier over time, but you will only get better through the process.

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  3. Lisa~ I am honored to be part of your tribe, and your role in my tribe is critical to my continued growth. I rely on your feedback, your ideas, and your well-timed sense of humor to encourage me to continue on my risky, exciting adventure to bring the best that is in us to students. Congrats on this latest professional accomplishment!

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  4. This rocks, girl! I was in the NCTIES session when you took that pic with George and started following you then. Been working on my first post and taking the plunge is…hard. So encouraged by you and excited to follow your journey! (And have you be part of my tribe)

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  5. Lisa you are amazing! You have inspired me and given me ideas that have filled my classroom. Thank you is never enough!!!

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  6. Lisa, I have thought about creating a blog many times since I began reading The Innovator’s Mindset, but I haven’t taken the plunge. Your words have inspired me! Thanks!

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  7. You could not have chosen a more important topic as you launch your work in this space! Thank you for the reminder that we do not have to work in isolation. When we open our doors,our minds, and our hearts great things can happen! We have much to learn from you and look forward to the journey!

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  8. You inspire me everyday! You are such a fantastic teacher and a very special friend. I will be in your tribe forever!! Love you Peep!

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  9. Way to go Lisa, that was a great read and I couldn’t agree more! I really love that your kids were part of your tribe that you learn and grow from too! We have such similar mindsets! Thanks for inspiring me to work on and recognize my tribe!

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  10. You have always been a little “different” in the most fabulous way. Enjoyed reading your blog and oh what a difference you make in this world. Go Lisa!!

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